VOICES OF HOPE
Tami & Ben
Growing up from a young age in Mt Pleasant, Utah, Tami felt that she was different being attracted to both men and women. She is grateful to be at peace with that part of herself, eventually understanding that these attractions are a gift—a secret superpower of compassion and empathy. She now lives in Georgia with her husband Ben, 4 children, 2 dogs, 2 snakes, a lizard, and a tarantula.
Full Interview [ 65 minutes ]
TAMI
Tami grew up in rural Utah as the oldest of five children. She served a mission to California Arcadia Spanish speaking and still finds great joy in missionary work and serving the Latino people. Tami met her amazing husband Ben at 28 and they were married 6 months later in the Manti, Utah Temple. They lived in several states while pursuing his medical education. They currently reside in Georgia with their 4 children and several animals (which comprise a complete ecosystem).
Professionally, Tami is a 25-year veteran software engineer, an online marketer, and is currently studying to become a licensed real estate agent. Her interests and hobbies include investing and finance along with anything having to do with water or the mountains: swimming, snorkeling, walks and sunbathing on the beach, kayaking, skiing, backpacking, and hiking. She’s always loved sports and played several from childhood into college. Her current sporting passion is tennis. Three years ago, for some reason her lifelong fear of spiders no longer plagued her: for her birthday she asked for and received her first pet tarantula. She has had one ever since.
BEN
Ben was born and raised in Sandy, Utah to a nice sized LDS family with 8 siblings. He enjoys hiking, tennis, basketball, and sports of all kinds. He served a mission in Guadalajara Mexico and still uses Spanish while working in the Emergency Department as a physician. He met his angelic wife in Provo after graduating from BYU. They have been married for more than 18 years. He and his family have lived in Missouri and Ohio while he completed his medical training. Ben has had various church callings but finds his greatest joy taking care of his calling as Husband and Father of 4 children. He currently lives in Georgia.
Embracing the Paradox of Being a Gay Child of God - Tami
How My Same-Sex Attraction Has Brought Me Closer to My Heavenly Parents
Guided by His Light - Ben
“He doth not anything save it be for the benefit of the world; for he loveth the world, even that he layeth down his own his own life that he may draw all men unto him. Wherefore, he commandeth none that they shall not partake of his salvation.” 2 Nephi 26:24